I have heard many ladies say stuffs like “John loves me but i can’t
marry him because i have
no feelings for him but I love Jude but he is just acting funny and he
even told me he does not love me” but she will still continue to hope
that Jude wakes up one day to start loving her while she keeps driving
John away. This is the case with many ladies loving a man who does not
want or love them while neglecting or friend-zoning the serious minded
dudes who
sincerely want them. A happy and peaceful union is not about being
with a Tall,cute,handsome,rich bla
bla bla…but its about having a man who respects and sincerely wants
you. Please as a lady,you must understand that it is not every man who
professes love to you is genuine and not all the men who ask for your
hand in marriage really wants you because many guys marry for
different reasons.Some want unhindered sex,some just want to have
children, some want someone to take care of the home front or just
satisfy the demands of family members so be sure to test
that man to know if he really loves and wants you as a wife for the
right reasons before saying yes i do to him.. I have so many lady
friends who have been in and
out of affairs and i can boldly make this conclusion with no fear of
confrontation that for a lady to have a fulfilling marriage, it is not
about how sweet looking or romantic or rich a guy is and infact the
feelings of a lady towards a man is as important as it may be does not
guaranty a happy marriage rather it is what the man feels towards the
lady that
matters.
.
Now let me blow your mind;many ladies will not agree with this but
this is how women are wired. Men are visually influenced while ladies
are emotionally influenced. If a woman marries a man she does not love
“as in no single love at all” but this guy starts to show her real
love and i mean treats her like a queen,i bet you that in no time, she
will begin to fall in love with him even if he is a fat,short,ugly
man. This is the mystery that women don’t even understand just like
the act of sharing a man but if you marry a guy by all
means because he is a cutie,rich or for any other reasons asides from
his unequivocal desire for you, trust me,by the time he treats you
like a poo after marriage,that cute guy you marry will look like a
beast and all the money he has will
be inconsequential to you . The beauty and the beast movie is not just fiction.
My unbiased conclusion is that if a lady marries a man that truly
loves and cherishes her,SHE IS COMPLETE IN MARRIAGE but if a lady
marries a
man she loves and feels so crazy about but he does not truly loves or
desires her,SHE IS MARITALLY
FINISHED . Every woman should pray to marry a man who will make them complete.
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